"Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy:
pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own,
that you can wash your feet and comb your hair
unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole,
peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else.
You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman.
You are your own voyeur.”
― Margaret Atwood, The Robber Bride

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